"Raising intelligent, independent and empowered kids."

smart parenting for smart child development

What is Tot Thoughts?

This site is designed to provide you with insightful thoughts and practical ideas on how to raise kids who are intelligent, independent and empowered.

I also explore ways to develop children’s multiple intelligences and strategies for teaching children to be effective negotiators (both invaluable skills for the development of any intelligent, independent and empowered child).

 

Why it matters?

Raising intelligent, independent and empowered children is important.

Why?

– because throughout your child’s life, people will try to tell them what to do, how to behave, or what they should think. You want your child to make those decisions on their own.

– because your child will have friends who will make poor decisions. You want your child to know better.

– because your child will be faced with difficult choices. You want them to have the courage to do the right thing.

– because intelligent, independent and empowered kids have the ability to achieve extraordinary things. And you know your child can be extraordinary.

 

Sign-up!

Raising intelligent, independent and empowered kids is not small task. But you already know that.

You also know that it’s immensely important. And maybe that’s where I can help.

Sign-up below:

You’ll get:

– posts with effective parenting strategies and ideas.
– no spam. Ever. I promise (and you can always and easily unsubscribe).

Drop me a line, I’d love to hear from you (totthoughts [at] gmail [dot] com).

Multi Media Bar

Previous
The Three Words That Destroy Your Child’s Confidence

Fearlessness is not the same as the absence of fear – Seth Godin Obviously. But...

The Tragicomedy of Parenting

A little perspective on the tragicomedy that is parenting:   What She Heard Let me...

Why Do Children Cyberbully (and what to do about it)

Kids share lots of information – photos, texts, emails, videos, links, gossip,...

Reject the tyranny of being popular: pick yourself

The cool kids are the ones that have all the fun, the ones that everyone likes....

The 10 Things All Parents-to-Be Must Know

You’re going to be a parent and that’s great. And it’ll be full of...

The Miley Message and why Reality is not a Show

At the heels of Miley Cyrus’ tasteless public debacle, there are two good things...

The Real Failure in Parenting

Nine years ago was my first experience with parenting. I approached it with all the...

Stop Yelling at Me!

The next time you have a conflict with your child, ask yourself these two questions:...

Committing to be Extraordinary

Being empowered is not about doing whatever you want whenever you want. It’s not...

Respect and Love in Parenting

You want your child to like you, to admire and appreciate you. You want your child to be...

The Lonely Road of Popularity

The urge to be popular is a powerful and, for most, unavoidable desire. And it grabs our...

Your Image Is Not Your Own

The way you look matters not just to you, but to your child as well. How you talk about...

Independent Agency Requires Information

Consider the following: If you want your child to abstain from having sex, but you...

Being a Perfect Parent

Being perfect doesn’t mean being absolutely flawless. It means that something fits...

From Rage to Zen (three steps to calm an angry child)

You know that feeling you get when you see a massive storm front approaching? Black...